Being long-distance sucks, but it doesn’t mean your sex life is dead. Phone sex can totally get you off and make you feel connected, even from miles away. If it seems weird or awkward at first, that’s normal! This guide will help you have fun and get comfortable getting hot and heavy over the phone.
Set the Mood
Do what helps you chill out and feel sexy before hopping on the call. Light some candles, bump your favorite dirty jams, or pour a glass of wine. Put on that lingerie that gives you confidence, or maybe nothing at all. Text your partner about fantasies you want to explore so you’re both stoked and down to play.
Start with Some Foreplay
Break the ice by reminding each other what turns you on about them. Think back to a time you had crazy awesome sex together. As the convo gets spicier, get into the nitty gritty details of exactly what you wanna do with and to each other when you see them next. Let your wildest fantasies out!
Really Get Into It
Paint super vivid word pictures to bring the scene alive. Mix in sounds like heavy breathing and moans. Bust out toys you both have and describe how they feel. Pay attention to what makes your partner gasp or groan to figure out what really gets them going. Go with the sexy vibe flowing between you both.
Keep Talking
Ask questions and make suggestions about fantasies, pace, positions. Say what feels good or what’s not really working for you. 100% be present in the moment – no scrolling! Phone boning is a skill that keeps getting better the more you practice and tailor it to each other. Most important is having playful, freaky fun together!
Bridging the Intimacy Gap With Sex Toys
Sustaining a healthy intimacy is one of the main challenges for couples in long-distance relationships. Yet with recent tech advances, there are now innovative tools like the Fleshy Pro that can help bridge the physical gap between partners through a shared intimate experience.
Remotely Controlled for Long-Distance Play
A new category of app-enabled sex toys allows couples to connect intimately from anywhere in the world. The basic idea is that the toys can be controlled remotely through an app, allowing a partner to effectively transmit touch across distance. Some even sync in real-time to a controlling partner’s movements, replicating the natural flow of physical intimacy.
Strengthening Bonds Over Distance
Partners in long-distance relationships report these high-tech toys have greatly benefited their bonds. The interactivity creates a feeling of closeness that texting and video chatting lacks, helping counter the emotional strain of being apart physically. Clinical studies also show continued sexual activity, even from afar, results in increased overall happiness and lower stress levels – something sorely needed for long-distance couples.
A Game-Changing Solution
I spoke with Michael, who has been in a long-distance relationship with partner Sara for over a year. “We explored different toys early on, and found one with an app that lets me control vibrations from anywhere,” he explained. “It brought us so much closer emotionally. When we finally reunited, our sex was the best it’s ever been.”
While risk of technical issues or connectivity losses is a consideration, manufacturers continue to refine app reliability and range limitations. Industry experts expect remote-controlled sex toys to become the norm as couples seek to stay intimate despite geographic barriers. For those committed to making long-distance work, they just might be a relationship game-changer.
