In every person, there is a preference for either dominance or submission. This is a fundamental aspect of our personality that affects how we interact with others, especially in romantic relationships. It’s not always easy to find someone who complements our personality and satisfies our desires, but understanding our own needs and preferences is a good starting point.
Subconsciously, we tend to seek out traits that we lack in ourselves. For instance, someone who is naturally dominant may be drawn to a submissive partner, while a naturally submissive person may seek out a more dominant partner. However, if we are guided solely by social norms and expectations, we may end up making choices that don’t serve our needs.
To find a compatible partner, it’s important to identify the traits we’re looking for in a relationship without prejudice. This requires self-awareness and an honest assessment of our own needs and desires. Only by acknowledging our deepest desires and preferences can we find a partner who complements and satisfies us in a long-lasting relationship.
One useful tool for identifying these preferences is the sexual archetype map, which can help us explore our own erotic blueprint and determine what we desire in a partner. The map outlines different traits associated with various archetypes, including the Dominant, Submissive, Explorer, and Hedonist. By identifying which archetype we most closely align with, we can identify the traits we want in a partner. An example would be a map of male and masochistic desires of femdom humiliation.
Another useful resource for finding a compatible partner is online resources and dating websites that cater to specific niches, including BDSM and kink communities. These platforms allow individuals to connect with like-minded people who share similar desires and preferences.
Ultimately, finding a perfect match in a Dom/sub relationship requires a deep understanding of our own needs and desires, as well as the willingness to explore and experiment with different approaches to intimacy. By being open to new experiences and exploring our own sexuality, we can find a partner who complements us in ways we never imagined.